From a male reader:
Its unfortunate I have to share my intimate secrets with total strangers on this forum but this bothers me a lot. My wife and I have been married for 4 years but its all the same.
Sexually my wife is too uptight. I have tried all I could to liberalize her mind concerning sex, but to no avail. Here are some issues I have with my wife’s sexual inhibition. She does not think a woman should initiate sex and she doesn’t.
We have only had sex in the bedroom because she wont get turned on if I try another place. We only do missionary style as she is reluctant to learn new skills and doggy to her is somehow animalistic.
We cant have sex if we are in mine or my parents house. We cant have sex if any of her siblings of mine are around she doesn’t want them to hear her moan.
We only have sex on weekends as she gets tired after work.
We have never had quickie. Like sex after she is fully dressed for occasion.. for where.
I asked her if she had any sexual fantasies she replied NO
She doesn’t shave her pubic hair. No sex with lights on
Blow Job? my D can not even touch boobs talk less of her mouth. Neither does she allow me to go down on her
Some advised counseling, others advocate porn to dis-inhibit her mind.
Please readers how do I turn my wife to a freak in bed. I have discussed with her many times with promise to change but still the same.