I met this 27-year-old guy sometimes in January and we became best of friends in no time as we complement in a lot of ways. Sometimes in March, we started doing a lot of stuff romantically except for penetrative sex because I am still a “virgin”.
Fast forward to now, we are like couples but, he says he is not big on commitment. He also said that there is this other lady in his life who he likes very much because she is caring and a great cook. The other lady however does not understand him like I do and is not as intelligent and ambitious as me.
He has said I should please be patient and allow him sort things out. My logical mind screams I am a side chick because the other girl does not know even about me. But my mushy girl mind says that I should stick around till say end of the year. What do I do?
I really like him a lot, despite the fact that he is presently jobless and broke. By the way I am 23-years-old and a fresh graduate with a job.
From female reader.